There is a saying that "A thousand friends is still lacking, One enemy most." This means that if we have a lot of friends then we will get many benefits, both directly and indirectly, so we expected to make friends with the crowd. On the other hand we also have to avoid hostilities with others because only bring harm to us.
People who are selfish, stubborn, deceitful, hypocritical, stingy, arrogant, spiteful, etc. are generally very easy to make enemies and ornag shunned by those around us. But a man of generosity, helpfulness, help, mutual help, kind, humble, honest, courteous, etc. would be very easy to find friends and colleagues will come by itself.
Be careful and always alert to the criminal and criminal-brained humans because they can hurt you at any time dengna perform a variety of criminal acts or acts is not fun you and your family and the people you love. Consort with criminals is not a lot of advantages because they enjoy the attention and help you but they are reluctant to do good to you and tends at times can turn into a ruthless enemy and callous / inhumane.
Criterion's Good To Be Our Approach:
- Can Honestly Believed
- Like Helping Unconditional
- Diligent Worshipping With Tolerance
- Not discriminate People
- Not Like Life Black / Criminal
- Aggressively Following Social Activities
- Loving Families
- Avoiding Drugs, Sex, Liquor
- Etc.. by organisasi.org
How To Make friends With Many People With Easy:
1. Sok Sok not Know Near / SKSD
In the acquaintance did not have to start by introducing myself, but can through a good pleasantries and polite. What is certain we must modestly although recipient age younger than us. Speaking as needed, not long-winded, self-pride, narcissistic, Jutek, quasi-tau, and so on. Be simple it is and do not boast of material / property that we have.
2. Not Select-Select Friends
Sometimes rich people will feel uncomfortable when dealing with poor people, people who are not educated, people who have the look of criminals, etc.. Precisely friendship little people sometimes are more eternal truth is without any strings attached. If we make friends with the elite who like to show off, loving-loving, life gelamor, etc. may be leaving us when we become poor or even if we are devastated they are reluctant to come down immediately to help us because they are busy. Do not hesitate to make friends with meatballs builders, motorcycle taxi drivers, mothers, grandmothers, small children, the guard booth, garbage, vegetable carpenters, security guards, etc. because maybe one day we needed their help. When we were struggling with senagn hearts they will offer their help freely.
3. On Social And Helping Others
If you are a Muslim then be diligent join congregational prayers at the mosque or prayer house around you. If there is work in lingkangan bhakti residence there then you should participate took part. There are also other social events are very good for you follow like Posyandu, household management, youth clubs, study, eradication of mosquito breeding msg, warning 17 Agustusan race, social gathering, and many others. Do not hesitate to help direct neighbors, friends, relatives, coworkers, etc. who are trouble because they will feel very happy if someone helps you, and they would be very happy if you can help us in the future. Reject immediately if they request such assistance that is not fair to ask for help rob a bank, find Jablay, graffiti wall people, ngerjain teachers / lecturers, etc..
4. Courtesy Polite, Friendly, Low Heart And Complicated
In bersosial we would be happy if other people polite, friendly, humble, and so on. Likewise with other people who will surely be happy to make friends with people who have the properties above. Sotoy, narcissistic, arrogant, boasting, avarice, munapik, etc. are traits that will lead to a negative value in the eyes of others so that they will be reluctant to to make friends familiar with us and generate antipathy in the eyes of the people.
5. Do not Make Enemies
Avoid properties that can bring the enemy to the front of our lives such as envy, jealousy, arrogance, arrogant, pompous, pretentious powerful, rich pretentious, hypocritical, stingy, deceitful, selfish, stubborn, and so on. Also avoid alcohol, drugs and friends shunned to avoid people. Friendly, polite, humble, yield, etc. to keep us from enmity. Solve all the problems existing problems of social life is completely fine to avoid protracted and lead to hostility.
Good luck getting as many friends.
True friends can help you solve your life problems.
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